今天突然又提起兴，要写blog. 刚看了‘一房半厅以水缸’，有个乔段就提到Carol要和他的家人脱离关系。刚开始，我非常受不了他的举动，说是为了要报复，要有钱，为了幸福，而逼不得已。其实应该是自己爱慕虚荣。但后来她又对他妹妹说贫贱夫妻百日哀。其实也不无道理，只是从古至今，有很多道理都是人们为了给自己找借口而说的。要委屈求全的时候，就说是大丈夫能屈能伸。称赞别人坚持不屈服时，就说是有骨气。

两个都有道理，但如果两个都接受确有很矛盾。在钱的议题上也是如此，钱能带给身边的人快乐，但赚钱的同时也为失去快乐。这使人矛盾，所以当无法解释一些自己的行为时，就说是社会逼我的。其实逼你的人是你，没有人可以看不起你直到你允许他们。

贫穷不可耻，但为何要有穷人和富贵人家之分？只因人一生下来就不同，贫富悬殊，有些人是温室里的小花，受人呵护，有些确实路旁小草，遭人践踏。我们虽然歌颂小草精神，但不能否认，人们的视线总是在小花身上，很少会注意到小草也很努力的在成长。我们在学校常看到一些同学有了新的手机，新的。。。，但没注意到一些买不起这些的人，他们的感受。 所以常让人觉得，有钱就能受人瞩目，就能实现自我价值，但往往在追逐名利时，丧失了自我，看不清真正想要得是什么。

The world is just unfair, everyone is born different. Some have more gifts than others. So how can we blame some people for doing some things when we don't understand their plight. Those people that are really poor, do we really understand why they do certain things. The maids who have to abandon their family to work in foreign countries alone, or the Vietnam brides who came here in search of a better life, or the Bangladesh workers who work day and night just to send a few hundred dollars back home. Some of them will do anything for money because they understand how it really is like to be poor. We may not understand. So, next time before we impose our moral standard on others and to accuse and blame others. Put yourself in their shoes. Just because you don't have to worry about some issues, be it money or work, doesn't mean others are in the same position as you do.

A person is a person, no matter how small
~ Horton hears a who~